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Thursday, October 11, 2012

Your Story

We are currently in a small group with our church,
and we are sharing our life stories,
and as I have been listening to everyone's stories,
there is a common thread,
our parents,
parents are a huge part of every life story,
it's inevitable,
wether good or bad,
they influence us.
And I couldn't help but think about what Brooks story will be 30 years from now,
And Trip and I have so much influence on his story,
I know we won't be perfect,
I know we will make mistakes,
but I pray Brooks will see one day that every choice we make as a family, and as parents,
is an act of love for him and for God,
I pray that Brooks story will reflect us as parents that pushed him toward God and not away from God.
I am thankful that I get to have a part in my childrens stories,
but I am more thankful that ultimately God is the author of their stories.



Thursday, October 4, 2012

For a good laugh

My brother just sent me this and it is hilarious! 
This girl loves nothing more than a good laugh,
And as much as we love our sweet puppy Piper, 
she has a few shameful moments herself!
Enjoy! 

On the lighter side...

 Dog Shaming 







Piper is growing and growing!
She's a handful at times but I love the way she loves us so much
and she is so stinking cute which makes it all worth it!




Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Fire Truck

Brooks still loves all his cars
He really likes to show me his "fire truck" everyday,
several times a day,
however, like many toddlers,
his "tr" sounds like "f"
so "fire truck"is not pronounced "fire truck" for Brooks,
it's so much better,
so come on over and I'll have my toddler say "fire truck" for you




Monday, September 17, 2012

In the neighborhood

Probably THE greatest thing about my childhood was the neighborhood I grew up in
My parents moved into their current house on Orchard Run when I was one
so it's the only house I've ever known,
I've had dreams that my parents were selling the house and I was devastated
Some of my parents best friends built houses in the same neighborhood
So I grew up running around outside playing baseball, spotlight, capture flag, street hockey etc
with at least 18 other kids all around my age.
I rarely had friends over because I always had people to play with in my neighborhood
3 of the neighborhood girls were in my wedding,
and every year we always had a cookout in the street and I always loved them as a kid,
we had bike parades, egg toss contests, pumpkin carving, I have the best memories!
Every Christmas we have a "caroling" party and it's still my favorite party of the Christmas season.
We brought back the tradition Sunday night and had a neighborhood cookout again,
many of the "kids" are now married and have their own kids, and some don't live in town anymore but the bond is still the same.
These neighborhood families are truly like family to me, they watched me grow up and continue to be a part of my life.
I would do ANYTHING to be able to recreate this kind of neighborhood for my children!
I forgot to take my real camera so I only got a few dinky phone pics.

these three are trouble


Kelly and Trip won the egg toss

and I just have to add a random cute bath picture



Thursday, September 6, 2012

In A Martha's World

Recently we had a busy week,
Trip and I had all our YL leaders to my parents mountain house for a leader weekend,
then we went strait from there to Sharptop for a Staff Retreat for a few days,
then we came home for a day and then went up to Highlands for the long weekend.
Brooks had a week strait of constant entertainment, lots of people to play with,
and it was awesome,
now back to boring old mom.
During our leader weekend I had a little nudge from the Lord,
you see I did all the grocery shopping and cooking for the weekend,
it was about 25 people for 4 meals,
it's such a fun weekend,
and I love to serve in this way,
but it is a lot,
I'm not going to pretend like I don't stress a little over it,
but I also come from a place of sincere desire to serve this way,
I am not a volunteer leader anymore and it's one small way I feel like I can contribute and give some thanks to all the leaders and give them a nice weekend away with home cooked meals,
Saturday afternoon (after a week of stitches for a toddler and me with the stomach bug for the 2nd time while being pregnant) I had a little internal melt down moment,
I just got tired and my pizza dough that I made wasn't cooperating,
And I just wanted to cry,
my heart was far from gracious and servant like,
I became my icky self.
And I went back to my room for a minute and had a little come to Jesus meeting,
I realized then and there, I had spent 0 time with Jesus,
I was completely reliant on myself,
on my own efforts,
and then I was brought back to the old story At the Home of Mary and Martha
Jesus came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him, 
She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet while listening to what he said. 
But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. 
She came to him and asked, 
" Lord don't you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!" 
"Martha Martha",  the Lord answered 
"you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed- 
or indeed only one. 
Mary has chosen what is better, 
and it will not be taken away from her."
Man, I wonder if I would be a Martha if Jesus were coming over to my house for dinner,
I would want the house clean,
toys put away,
the kitchen in order,
the food just right,
I wonder if I would miss out on the one thing,
listening to Jesus.
Although my intentions may be in a good place,
without Christ,
my ugly self comes out.
just ask my husband.
I was reminded again of this at Sharptop just a day later when former Young Life president, Bob Mitchell  spoke and challenged YL staff to listen to Jesus more instead of always doing.
I hope in the future I can choose what is better.

photo updates

his cousins dressed him up, not so sure about it


this girls taught him to do this little move, while saying "peace"

first day of MMO with stitches on his cheek

leaders

Superman taking care of business while leaders are meeting

homemade pizzas



Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Some more firsts

Well we have had a few more firsts around here,
Brooks had his first hair cut (really more of trim) by daddy,
We had our first visit to Scottish Rite,
And our first meet and greet at school,
And he had his 18 month appointment yesterday.
18 month stats:
Weight- 27 lbs (85%, whoa he is a deceivingly thick boy)
Height- 32.3 (50%)
Head- 49 (95%= genius)

So we went to Scottish Rite after a little dog incident Sunday night,
I am so thankful to have such a great children's hospital so close by.
He just got about 4 stitches, no biggie,
but so sad to see him hurt,
the funniest part was when the meds kicked in and he got a little loopy,


Our incident was minor and he is doing fine,
all I could think about while we were there was about all the other parents that have to spend hours every day at the hospital for stuff like chemo or other serious health problems with their child,
I almost teared up passing by other kiddos with bad illnesses,
I can not even imagine watching your child go through medical procedures over and over.
We met a little boy name Garrett on our way out who is there everyday for chemo.
Garrett loves cars just like Brooks and his mom lets him pick out a new car at the store after each round of chemo, 
we are now praying for Garrett and his sweet mom!
I also have such a new appreciation for children's doctors and nurses,
they have a very special calling.


He's on drugs in this pic!

He has his first day of MMO/school on Thursday, 
so we got to meet his teachers today.
I think he is really going to enjoy this time, (and so will mommy).
He just goes once a week which I think we'll be treasured time once baby #2 comes.



And dad gave him his first trim,







Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Lately

Lately we have been glued to the T.V. every night,
late,
watching the Olympics!
We love it so much!
We had some friends over to watch the opening ceremonies,
I made an Olympic cake,
I was very proud of myself because I am the most uncrafty person ever!


This year I have found myself really into the parents of the athletes.
Being a parent has perhaps given me a different perspective now,
I think about the sacrifice that the parents have made from the very beginning,
and how much pride, and nerves must be running through their bodies!
Heck, I have pride running through my body when Brooks points to his belly button when I tell him to.......... so I can't even imagine what they must feel when their child gets to represent their country in the Olympics!

Brooks is still very much into his cars,
he is going through a little separation anxiety when we leave him with sitters and at church or MMO,
he's trying to repeat every word we say,
and he loves giving kisses!


Dinner at the Youngs house


playing with bubbles at Naomi's 2nd birthday party

kissing his cousin Lanier at dinner,
just a little incest,
no big deal

wearing daddies hat

Piper is growing!
We are trying to manage life with a puppy.....

Hi!
Standing on tree stumps in the yard as we get two trees taken down!

And now I am really ready for the fall, so tired of this heat! 
I am always ready for the next season!